Take control of your sex life

Has your sex life gone from sizzling to so-so? Then take a look at your sex etiquette.

"Something you're saying or doing might be scaring him out of the bedroom," says Val Sampson, author of The Real Sex Kitten's Handbook (Quadrille Publishing, R121.56, www.kalahari.net).

"It's time to seize control of your sex life by turning around those little things that lead to bad, boring or no sex."

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"Women often feel the need to confide in their partner before or after sex because the intimacy they experience makes them feel secure," says Val.

"Male brains work differently – they feel less engaged and would rather roll over and relax. You might be making him feel that in order to have sex with you he has to give you some form of commitment in return."

"If you feel the need to discuss marriage or domestic issues, don't do it in bed. Go for a walk so you can both escape if it gets too intense," says Val.

"That way, you'll feel less emotionally needy, and he won't feel manipulated into promising you something he might regret later."

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